it's time we stop "should"ing ourselves

The issues of today will continue to intrude upon our tomorrows until we finally learn the lesson they are sent to teach us. Do you have a reoccurring issue in your life? Something that just seems to continually resurface in your relationships, health or your finances? Is there a belief that you keep bringing into your reality? Is there a situation which you have not resolved by either forgiving yourself or the other party that you keep punishing yourself for? Is there an unrest in your soul that prevents you from finding peace? What are your barriers? If we’re being honest we all have more than one at any given time. Even those who are reaching new heights of enlightenment will find that at times it feels like peeling back the layers of an onion. Removal of one barrier brings to light another and so on. We are all indeed human and perfection is an illusion many of us have bought into at one time or another. By doing so we create unrealistic views of what and how we “should” be. It’s time we stop “should”ing ourselves and start enjoying our lives. What feels good, what feels right, that’s intended to be our guide not anything external. Allowing ourselves to grow and learn without judgement. Don't wait for everything to be perfect to take action,you'll never move forward.Don't be afraid to make a mistake. Mistakes are merely a lesson on how to do it better the next time, not a time to regress and punish ourselves, and failure can only happen when we stop trying.